...that we ask cj now when he's being picky at mealtime.
last night was our church's Sunday School Christmas program. but before that, we had to eat supper. and cj refused to eat. again. no amount of coaxing, not even telling him that he'd have a cookie (and cookies are his FAVORITE treat!) after the Christmas program if he ate was enough to get him to try the yummy ravioli my husband made for us. cj wouldn't try his peas either. so he didn't eat. and he got really hungry during the program (thankfully, that was after he was done with his part). we stuck to our guns and the poor dear got no cookies, no snacks...nothing but water. (maybe he's learning that no amount of crying will get us to change our minds about this rule!)
as for the Christmas program itself, the boys did their parts very well and their mama was more than a little pleased. bubba played a piano solo that he started working on a week ago. (nothing like deciding at the last minute that you want to participate after all!) and you'd never know he hadn't been working on it for weeks. yes, the kid has talent. (and his mama can't help but be a little bit proud. i do teach him the piano too, after all!) bubba also had a vocal solo during the song "We Three Kings" that he did quite nicely and a short recitation as part of his class's part of the program.
cj also did his part with the pre-k class just fine...he even said his line "A is for all He stands for" into the microphone. a week ago, i wouldn't have guessed that he'd actually do it! and when the younger kids (pre-k thru 2nd grade) sang their songs, he even tried to sing along. :D